About The Commandant

Because of My 10+ years being kinky I keep an open mind to all walks of life, all situations, and address common issues within BDSM and it's subsets head-on. I bring a scientific, logical, and yet empathetic light to their BDSM education. I educate with passion, guiding My clients, and students to effectively strengthen and elevate their BDSM expeditions to new heights. I firmly believe that true liberation lies in the acknowledgment and acceptance of one's deepest desires and vulnerabilities. My approach to education revolves around providing a safe and consensual space for My students to explore their fantasies and boundaries, pushing them to new heights of self-discovery and growth.

With the 9 years of BDSM experience, a knack for making meaningful connections with audiences and an insatiable appetite for helping others maximize their potential, I know how to rock a platform, connect with a crowd and provide education and enthusiasm for learning so that others can effectively do the same.

 My down-to-earth humor (seriously, I've got some pretty impressive memes) compels audiences to laugh while they learn. I engage with groups from the moment I step in front of them and leave them with empowering tools and focused mindsets that they will use long after the night is through. I am passionate about people, learning and BDSM. I am especially inspired to help people take their exploration within kink – and themselves – to unprecedented levels. While I primarily operate within the realm of BDSM, I also take a keen interest in mental and emotional well-being. Outside of My professional life, I actively advocate for addiction recovery, LBGTQIA+ rights, decolonizing kink, self-care, self-acceptance, and personal growth. My dedication to creating a supportive and empowering community extends beyond the dungeon, as I do My best to make it to discussions, workshops, and conferences on BDSM, consent, and alternative lifestyles.

1.  You are not to devalue yourself within your vanilla state of mind, nor your servitude to Me. If you are to be underneath Me you are to hold yourself worthy because that is what you are. 
2. Communication is mandatory. You will be willing to discuss your limits, your budget, your willingness to serve, and what you want.
3. You are to be compensating Me for My time preferably monetarily, or through service acts such as website building, promotion, proof reading, etc. Service acts are not available for everyone. Monetary donations are prioritized.
4. You are to appreciate the time that I have, I do not ignore My things unless it is communicated first. I will respond to you whenever it serves Me.
5. You are to adhere to a specific set of tailored rules for O/our time together, on top of these Commandments.
6. You are to remain honest, and accountable for your personal life/commitments and how that may effect your servitude to Me. 
7. You are to be honest with Me about references, and willing to share ID prior to meeting for session work. 
8. You can not hog Me to yourself. I am a Professional Dominatrix, not your girlfriend.
9. You are willing to undergo COVID-19 testing 24 hours PRIOR to your scheduled session time. If you are vaccinated you are to provide proof. Unvaccinated clients will not be prioritized.
10. You are to do your research on My expectations for protocol, and book appointments properly. Anyone who doesn't follow instruction will simply be ignored.

Based out of Dallas/Fort Worth Texas, I provide My own realm of dark desires, where pleasure and pain intertwine in a seductive dance. In the depths of shadows, amidst the smoldering embers of passion, emerges The Commandant—a wickedly enchanting Dominatrix like no other. My name whispers through the night, drawing souls towards My irresistible allure, luring them into a realm where ecstasy and torment become one.

I like to best describe Myself as a succubus draped in captivating darkness, possessing an otherworldly beauty that bewitches all who dare to gaze upon Me. My piercing eyes hold a glint of mischief, promising an intoxicating blend of pain and pleasure that will consume every fiber of your being. With a mere flick of My whip, I command your surrender, igniting an insatiable hunger within you to explore the depths of your desires.

Beneath My captivating facade lies a sadistic seductress, a Commander of torment who revels in the sweet symphony of your moans and gasps. I wield the power with grace and precision, expertly weaving a web of exquisite agony that will leave you trembling in delicious anticipation.

But do not be deceived by My wicked nature, for within My Haus, I am also a paradox of care and tenderness. As I push you to your limits, I am a pioneer for ongoing consent and aftercare. Beneath My iron-fisted control, I am able to become your sanctuary, a sanctuary where vulnerability is embraced, and trust blooms like a forbidden flower.

I revel in unearthing the darkest corners of your psyche, exposing your deepest secrets and forbidden cravings. Through pain and surrender, I can set you free, liberating you from the shackles of societal expectations and unleashing your true essence.

Step into the seductive embrace of The Commandant, and I will become your nocturnal muse, your nocturnal predator. I will etch My mark upon your very soul, leaving an indelible imprint that will forever remind you of the exquisite torment and euphoria that can only be found within My realm. Brace yourself, for I will awaken desires you never knew existed, and with each encounter, you will descend further into the depths of the darkness I embody.

Prepare to succumb to the sadistic succubus, The Commandant, and be forever changed by the tantalizing symphony I orchestrate, a symphony that will echo through eternity.