About The Commandant

 Based in Dallas, Texas yet always open to traveling for the right connection. Step into My world where power, intention, and desire are explored with care and precision. As a Dominatrix, Kink Educator, Fetish Model, Performer, and Adult Content Creator I guide others through experiences that blend discipline with deep emotional awareness.

With over 10 years of experience in and around the lifestyle BDSM community My path has been one of continuous learning and growth. The culture of kink is part of My foundation woven into everything from performance to personal practice. I approach this work with reverence, empathy, and an unshakable commitment to consent and authentic expression.

My presence is both commanding and compassionate. Every scene, session, and interaction is intentionally crafted to invite surrender, spark curiosity, and nurture trust. I offer a space where vulnerability isn’t just welcomed; it’s honored.

Whether  it's teaching, performing, or holding space for transformation, I create experiences that challenge, awaken, and empower. I believe in the beauty of the journey. Where self-discovery meets structure, and connection becomes a ritual.

If you're drawn to explore your edges with someone who holds both strength and care, you may find what you're looking for with Me.

 My performance art is a bold fusion of power, movement, and storytelling rooted in the aesthetics of BDSM. I’ve brought My work to events like DomCon NOLA & LA, the AVN Lair Fetish Party, FetEvo, Southern Pleasure Expo, and a variety of local venues. I craft visually striking scenes that explore themes of control, trust, and expression. Every performance is a deliberate and thoughtful production designed to engage audiences with the emotional and symbolic layers of kink inspired art in a safe, respectful, and theatrical way. My signature act, The Pain Symphony, is a choreographed performance where I guide my partner through a dynamic, rhythmic experience that showcases both discipline and artistry. Their responses become part of the composition finely tuned to each gesture, sound, and movement into a carefully directed moment on stage. It’s a living performance, meant to evoke curiosity, reflection, and appreciation for the creative potential of alternative expressions. I’m always open to new opportunities to share this work with broader audiences and bring new energy to stages across the community!

With the 10 years of BDSM experience, a knack for making meaningful connections with audiences and an insatiable appetite for helping others maximize their potential, I know how to rock a platform, connect with a crowd and provide education and enthusiasm for learning so that others can effectively do the same.

 My down-to-earth humor (seriously, I've got some pretty impressive memes) compels audiences to laugh while they learn. I engage with groups from the moment I step in front of them and leave them with empowering tools and focused mindsets that they will use long after the night is through. I am passionate about people, learning and BDSM. I am especially inspired to help people take their exploration within kink and themselves to unprecedented levels. While I primarily operate within the realm of BDSM, I also take a keen interest in mental and emotional well-being. Outside of My professional life, I actively advocate for addiction recovery, LBGTQIA+ rights, decolonizing kink, self-care, self-acceptance, and personal growth. My dedication to creating a supportive and empowering community extends beyond the dungeon, as I do My best to make it to discussions, workshops, and conferences on BDSM, consent, and alternative lifestyles.