Give Yourself Unto Me

You are expected to tribute to Me if you want the honor of My presence. You will not get a response to any message, or form inquiry without meeting My expectation for your first sacrifice.
All sessions booked require half of the overall session total as a deposit to even secure a spot. When paying for your sessions via online options DO NOT label it, leave it completely blank.
Any additional sacrifices and tributes made are because you are respecting My time, expertise, and are wanting to contribute to the business that is "The Commandant".

I only accept cash deposits from trusted clients. All of My other payment methods are provided upon request if they can not be found here. 

I am willing to work with budgets and discuss options after My initial sacrifice is met.

 Ensuring a safe and comfortable environment for all is My top priority. To book a session I offer several screening options tailored to your preferences, I know I am a merciful God. You can choose to have a 15-30 minute chat over the phone, during which you'll need to provide some form of ID verification.
Alternatively, we can connect via a video call, where you can present your ID directly on screen.
For a more personal touch, you’re welcome to catch one of My performances at a club—just check my Instagram (@thecommandanttx) for My schedule. 

Lastly, we can meet for coffee, enjoy a shopping outing, or even visit one of the dungeons—just keep in mind My dungeon rate for that option. Each method is designed to build trust and ensure an enjoyable experience. These options are only available once My form has been completed and the 1st Tithe To The Haus has been made. 

Prior to engaging in any activities, I will discuss your interests, limits, and boundaries. These will be communicated to Me via My form that you have to fill out to even book a session.  If your form submission is up to My standards; I will reach out to you to book. You may only reach out to Me if you have filled out My form. If you do so, SPECIFY who you are via providing your username, or your name in your message to Me. If it is not; read over My entire site and try harder the next time. It is essential to communicate openly and honestly about your desires and concerns. 

Anyone involved must be able to give enthusiastic consent before, during, and after play. I will respect any and all limits, and you will also respect Mine. 

If at any point during our time together you feel uncomfortable or need to adjust boundaries, we will be using agreed upon safewords, and signals. 

I will not cater to CG/Little play (Don't call Me Mommy), scat, race play, or seriously dangerous acts for your sick whims. 

None of your personal information will be stored, or shared without your explicit and written consent(IE; Consensual Blackmail). You are required to show your ID and be willing to prove that you are who you say you are prior to the session booked. If you are wanting to film content, you are expected to sign a content release form. Hoods, masks, face-coverings are allowed.

You will treat Me with respect, professionalism, and courtesy at all times. You must understand, and respect the fact that I am a Professional providing you with a service within the deep dark world that is BDSM and fetish exploration. Although I love a good brat, I will not tolerate someone attempting to tell Me how to do My job.
You may address Me as "Commandant", "Mistress/Master", "Daddy", or "Boss". Any other honorific used will be disregarded.
My expertise lies within the world of consensual power exchange, My role in this is not a means for sexual, or personal gratification beyond the agreed-upon boundaries already set.
In order to book with Me you will need to fill out My google form in it's entirety. You being clear and concise with your needs will help Me. Help Me, help you.
I will not ignore you unless your form is lackluster. Form responses are done Monday-Friday. Haven't gotten a response? Figure out what you did incorrectly.

Sessions are to be booked a week in advance bare minimum. This may fluctuate as My schedule allows. Want to know when that happens? Follow Me on social media to stay updated for any sudden openings.

Your session will not be booked until a deposit towards the session is made. The deposit is half of the overall session cost and due in order to secure a booking.
Your punctuality is detrimental. If you are more than 30 minutes late without notice, you will be blocked from further contact and not able to get your deposit back.
Cancellations are accepted 48 hours in advance in order to get your deposit back.

You will agree to bathe prior to the session. I will not touch you with My bare hands if I can smell that you haven't bathed.
You are to understand that My safety is key. With that, I do have security within My sessions.
You will be required to provide a COVID-19 test 24 hours prior to your session. Vaccinated clients will be prioritized.

 20 or more minutes towards the end of your session will be allocated for aftercare and decompression.As a Professional I understand the importance of your emotional and physical wellbeing after these sessions. This may include hugging, positive affirmations, discusing how the session went, eating snacks, etc. I will be reaching back out to you 24-48 hours after our time spent together for feedback & needed check ins.  

I am a living and breathing fetish machine. As a hedonist, I believe that My (and others) pleasure is most important above all. With that being said, I specialize in making your pain My pleasure. Corporal punishment, impact play, and CBT will forever be favorites for Me simply because of how beautifully I can make you sing. I believe that your brain is the body's largest sex organ so therefore, I love to fuck the mind with My sweet sin and corruption. My playing with your small mind doesn't stop there, for I will hypnotize you and sink My claws into you until I am satisfied. Because I am an insatiable succubus, energy exchange is everything to Me just as is power exchange. I objectify and utilize all of My toys for their uses and prefer them to be blissfully brainless like a good bim/him/thembo fuckdoll as I have My way.~ 

Want more? Check out My FetLife, or ask! 

To secure your session with Me, a deposit equal to half of your overall session cost is mandatory before booking. This deposit ensures your commitment and is non-refundable if you fail to communicate or show up. While I primarily accept electronic deposits, cash deposits can only be accepted if delivered directly to Me at a club or from a trusted client. Please note that I do not accept cash gift cards or Amazon gift cards from new clients.

Cancellations are accepted up to 48 hours in advance, allowing you to receive a refund of half of your deposit. However, if you cancel within the 48-hour window or are more than 30 minutes late without prior notice, your deposit will be forfeited, and you will be blocked from further contact. It’s essential to keep communication open; if you are running late, please inform Me as soon as possible. I do not tolerate wasted time, and no-shows or lack of communication will result in being blocked from future bookings.